Power of Three...

You all must have heard about the power of one.Even there are sayings like "Two's company three's crowd.." But many people think that
three is an unlucky number so u must b wondering how 3 can b powerful ????

Have u ever given a thought that the strongest of the emotions or the nastiest of the expressions can be expressed by using just three words...
"I LOVE U" , "I MISS U ", "I TRUST U " ,"I LIKE U"and even "I HATE U " ,"DONT IRRITATE ME" , "PAY THE BILL ;) ", "GO TO HELL" , "HOW DARE U", etc...

You can find lot many other expressions that can be expressed by using just three words...

Just 3 words can give ur dying relations a new life and just three words can spoil a beautiful relation.

So think before u use any of the three powerful words.......
Njoy!!

KHO GAYA HINDUSTAN.....

Kho gaya HINDUSTAN...par kahan??You all must b wondering why am I saying this that too when Indians are gaining name and fame in the entire world...

Right from Bill Clinton to Bill Gates from America to Europe everyone agrees with the fact that Indian minds are the best minds.Indians are getting recognition then why am I saying that Hindustan is lost??
But still I will say the same thing Kho Gaya Mera Hindustan...due to the differences between Bharat and India..kahi Kho gaya mera Hindustan

India is progressing day by day...but Bharat is still in the darkness.Governmennt claims that the purchasing power of the Indian consumer is increasing...but still Bhartiya farmer is not able to earn bread and butter for his family.
Rich are becoming richer but poor even poorer...The gap between the financial positions of these two sections of the society is increasing day by day.

In India,we all are considered equal but now also in Bharat there is lot of discrimination whether on the basis of caste,creed or sex.
In India people are educated.They know very well the value of a vote which they don't caste as they think it to b a waste of time.In Bharat vote = a new saree or a bottle of alcohol so they caste their votes.

In India, people blame their constitution and the government for miserable condition of their country.In Bharat people blame their fates because for them their fields or the village is entire world.

In India people fight against reservation system and support merit..but not even a single person or ororganisation came forward when DPS Dwarka refuses to enroll a meritorious student scoring 97% in 10th CBSE board exam who's anOBC too.Now, I would like to ask where are those anti-reservation and reservation supporters??That student is a girl so where are those who demand 37% reservation for women and where are those who say that women whould pove their mettle to reserve a place for them??

In Bharat the basic education system is very poor and people even don't know the plans and policies made for them by the government. In India people are educated and are aware of their rights and duties but do not have the guts to stand for their own rights.Even they comfortably overlook the situaion when they are suppose to carry out their duties.

In India people of all religions and caste work together hand in hand.In Bharat the politicians make people fight on the basis of religion and play dirty games for vote bank.

In India we export food items and other goods.In Bharat people crave for them.

In India people work in MNC's and live in fully furnished flats.In Bharat people are affected by draught and famine.

In India people are so busy in earning money that they dont even have time to use it and enjoy the different flavours of life.In Bharat there is no money but smile and brotherhood.

In India u'll find concrete jungles..In Bharat u can see the natural beauty.

We can find thousands of differences in India and Bharat and due to all these differences kahi kho gaya mera Hindustan...

Khwahishon ki chamak or mitti ki mehek ke beech
Kahi kho gaya mera HINDUSTAN

KUCH KHWAHISHEIN AISI BHI...!!!

What is your first reaction when you stop your vehicle or when u r been to a temple or any place of worship and a beggar comes running towards you?? Most of us either shout at them(if that beggar is fit n fine) that why dont you work and earn your living andif that beggar is physically chalenged then we give something to him and just forget about this incident.In our busy lives we don't have time to even remeber some important incidents then in country like india where at every corner of road you will find beggars such an incident will surely b wiped of from our memories.

We usually blame the government policies for the increasing number of beggars in our country.You will find lots of kids who at the age when they should go to schools their parents(beggars) put them in this begging business as they find it much better than the primary education what they should get.

You people must be thinking today why i am writing all this stuff or what made me write all this.
Its because of an incident that happened few days back when I went to Sai Baba Temple which made me think about those kids who are forcefully put into this begging bussiness.And I feel like sharing this incident with others.

As I stepped into the temple premises some kids(here the kids m referring are the children of beggars) came running to me.As mostly people do I also shouted at them and they went away but a little girl still followed me.At that time somehow I got rid of her but when I came out of the temple,she again came running towards me.At that time I was so fed up of her that i just made my mind that I will give her some money and get rid of her.As I opened my bag to check whether I have some change to give to her she saw my notebooks.When I gave her the money she said

"Didi mujhe paise bhale hi mat do par ek copy de do,mujhe b padna hai main bhi school jaungi"I was surprised on hearing this.This girl who had irritated me so much and somehow I was trying to get rid of her started appearing sweet and innocent to me.At that time I just promised her that i'll bring her a copy and some writing material and I went away.
Next day I especially went back to the temple with a copy and some writing material to give it to her i wasnt able to find her.I enquired about her but the other beggars said that she has not come today.This thing continued for 3 days and I wasn't able to find her.On the 4 th day I saw that girl and I went to her.I saw that her hands were burnt,I asked how this thing happened she said-"Us din didi humne apse paisa nahi liya tha na to hamare chacha ne dekh liya tha to usne hamara hath jalaa diya"I was shocked on hearing this.
Hume nahi chahiye copy hume to bas paise de do nahi to chacha marenge.I was speechless.I felt like slapping her bloody(sorry for using such words but cant stop myself from using it) chacha but wasn't able to find him.
I gave her some money and also that copy and writing stuff and said keep it with you when you are not running behind people for money just study something and left.

I cant forget this incidence and will surely pray that someday that girl and also other children like her can fulfill their dreams of going to school!!!

Cant we do anything for these kids afterall they are the future of our country.

I just wish aisi khwahishein puri ho jaye....

MUJHE CHANGE CHAHIYE...

You will be hearing these three words very commonly by everyone these days.Some people want change from the type of work they are doing...some want a change from their hectic schedules..some wanna have fun and no studies(no need to tell which class they belong to..students of course).In short you can say that everyone wants a change from the prevailing system.

But the problem is people just think..discuss...blame and forget and then regret,that when it was the actual time when something could b done,so that such situations would not been occured, they never even bothered to do anything for the good of themselves(as what all will affect the society will inturn affect us).

If someone thinks to do something good for the society people laugh at there efforts(shows the sick mentality nothing else) which inturn many a times demoralises others.

You must be thinking what made me write all this today....
A small incidence occured which actually made me feel that everyone wants to change some or the other thing but no one steps forward when the actual "time to act" comes!!

Few days back a friend of mine at an interview was asked that what was his ambition in life and he answered that he wants to be the PRIME MINISTER of our country(many of u must have laughed on reading this same as the interviewer did).The person who was takin his interview said...why the hell u want to spoil your bright future...afterall you are an engineering student and u should concentrate on this field only.But i want to raise aquestion that all the educated citizens of India want that their country should be led by intelligent and educated people but when someone(educated people) want to join politics every one else discpurages them instead of encouraging...

Do you think in this way our country can progress.People(having non-political background) also have an attitude that at young age one should not join politics ...and on the contrary they only feel pity for our country that the old politicians are just enjoying the medical facilties provided to them and are not able to give their fullest to the nation.

Leave politics,just see around yourselves..whether in an organisation or a school or college you will see people having lot many complaints against their management but how many of them actually stand up and express their views about those problems.

Just discussing about problems...blaming the system and regretting is not going to help us and nothing is going to change by merely doing this.All we need to do is to use our fundamental right(RIGHT TO FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION) in the real sense.

Its actually TIME TO ACT now if you really want a change.If you really want that you should never have to say the words mujhe change chahiye we need to change our attitudes.And if u really want to use these wordsa then use them in context of yyour attitudes.

So finally i just want to say that hum sab k attitudes mein MUJHE CHANGE CHAHIYE

Love...!!!

The one about whom you think...when you feel low,
You need him with you when your life moves slow....

The one with whom time passes at a greater speed....
Those moments should stop is the only thing you need...

When someone is miles apart...
but still he's on your mind and in your heart...

When you feel that ur emotions are above all things....
This change in life my dear only love can bring............

NATIONAL FESTIVALS or...HOLIDAYS....??
Being a citizen of India we all are privileged with three special days...Independence day,Republic day and Gandhi Jayanti,which we can celebrate,with a feeling of togetherness irrespective of our caste and religion.

These days were declared as the "national festivals" of our country.But now people better know them as "national holidays".On these days most of us like to wake up late in the morning and want to spend their mornings sitting at their homes, in front of television(idiot box) or reading a newspaper and enjoying the morning tea.

Was this the reason to declare these days as national festivals?We never forget to wake up early in the morning and go to our respective worship places on the other festival days then why we dont celebrate our national festivals with the same enthusiasm.....???

Those who have to go to their respective workplaces or schools and colleges on these days just consider it as a work which has to done that too just because of the orders of their superiors....On other festival days we very happily go to greet our friends and relatives...at that point of time no one else has to give us orders to do so...then why such is the case with national festivals??

Following the trends of western culture we now celebrate "mothers day" but our nation which we term as our motherland we cant even celebrate these national festivals with the feeling of togetherness for her sake.Are these festivals made only for the soldiers??Whenever their is a news about that a soldier of ours is martyred we all are filled with greif but when u are given a day to remember them and pay tribute to them we dont have time to do so....

"Ae mere watan k logon zara aankh mein bhar lo paani..."not because we people are paying tribute to our soldiers...but because we should be ashamed of the attitude we are having...

26 January......Independence day
Shocked...this was my reaction when i heard that people of my own country didn't even know that whether 26January is republic day or independence day....and it was even more shocking when i came to know who those people were who gave this naswer.. "26 january is independence day" TEACHERS of a school at Bhopal....

This news was flashed on NDTV India on 26 jan 2006 when they went to a school at Bhopal just to see what all preperations are going on for Republic Day and asked few questions about this day from the teachers of that school...

Maximum of them said that its independence day...some said that on this day constitution was made(i felt a bit relieved on hearing this but....)they continued and said in 1857 our constitution was made.

Some said that its just a day to remember the freedom fighters of India who fought for our independence.In todays world we are not having time to remember them so our government has declared this very day to remember them.

The thought that who all people were giving these answers trembled me...The future of our country is in their hands and they dont even know about the history(independence day) of our country.

Is this the fault of those teachers or the fault of our weak education system?If this is the scenario in a city(that too a state capital)then what else can you expect from a village side school.These wrong teachings must have been given to them by their teachers and as they all have studied from various schools imagine the condition of other schools too and how many other people must be celebrating 26 jan as.....Independence Day

How can you even imagine the progress of a country where the future is in the hands of people who cannot even termed as uneducated but should be termed as ill-educated...